Love comes in small packages

February 29, 2008 1 Comments A+ a-

Trip to Haiti was a long day, but went without a hitch. I took an 0600 flight to MIA, and met Kathy and Patty in MIA...Kathy lives there, Patty flew in from Dallas-Fort Worth (DFW).

From there, we flew into Port Au Prince (PAP) where our Haitian contact, Maryse, was waiting to meet us and make things happen for us, without the red tape. We deplaned, and she walked us to the counter, where the Moms were with their babies. Initially, three babies were coming back with us--but, one didn't have all the paperwork done, so we brought back two: Skyline and Widline (sky-leen and wid-leen).

Skyline has a cleft palate and had already had her first surgery, which was to repair her lip...it was a beautiful job, and you had to really look to see that she had had any surgery at all. Here is her "before" picture, just before her lip surgery was done several months ago.





Here she is post-op. (I stole these pictures off the Angel Missions Haiti website...)


I don't have a pretty picture of her face as it is now--just know that her lip surgery was so beautifully done, you have to really look to see that she even had any surgery. And, she is a big 14 month old now. (If you click on this picture it will come up larger, and you can see closer how her lip looks...)





This is Widline--she was born without some of her necessary parts (I'll just leave it at that) and is scheduled for a couple of YEARS worth of surgeries--that she has a 50-50 shot of surviving! She is precious--and TINY! 4 months old and she might weigh 10 pounds!

We arrived, went into the terminal with Maryse, waited about 15 minutes with the children's family members (who spoke no English, and we did not speak their French dialect, for sure!) while Maryse took care of all the necessary documents and boarding passes for us. We hugged them goodbye and Maryse whisked us through security and passport control--there is no official record of us arriving or departing Haiti, no passport stamp given--talk about cutting through the red tape! We were back on the same aircraft we arrived on. We were in Haiti maybe a total of 60 minutes.


This was in PAP, right before we boarded the plane. Kathy holding Widline, Maryse, me, Patty and Skyline.

When we got to MIA, we had to go through Passport Control/Immigration. We needed to ask that Widline be given an extended visa--the people there were so very nice, and I asked for a year for her and got it. (That saves the mission about $300 not having to renew it in six months.) Skyline only needed a couple of months, but he gave her six.

I would like to personally thank each and every family that, for whatever reason, has left a stroller at Baggage Claim in the Miami Airport. One of you saved our arms and gave us some needed relief, and from the bottom of my heart, I thank you! Especially thank you to the family that left the double stroller two years ago--we were able to use it and donate it to the family that is taking these babies. (FYI--there were over 200 baby strollers at the lost and found--how does someone lose a baby stroller???) We had five hours between flights so, having that stroller was a lifesaver.

Since there were only two babies, it wasn't necessary for Kathy to stick around, so she went home. Patty and I went to the American Airlines crew lounge and set up camp with the kids in a quiet corner, got everyone fed and changed and happy. The children slept all the way to Greensboro, NC (GSO) which is where the mission people met us to pick up the children. They dropped us off at our hotel around midnight--it took no time at all for me to fall asleep!! I flew home the next morning.

So, if anyone is interested in the group that is helping these precious children, it is the Angel Missions Haiti. They work on a shoestring budget--and how Airline Ambassadors ties in is that instead of one or two of the Mission's people having to purchase airline tickets to fly down and pick up the babies, we were able to use our employee flight benefits and fly down at no cost, and escort the infants (no charge for them) back to the folks from the Mission. It saves the Mission several hundred to a thousand or so dollars.

I know I'll be checking their website to follow the progress of these babies--they touch people when you least expect it. On one of our flights, a female AA pilot was sitting across from me, and she said, "If you need a break, I'm happy to help." After a while, I needed to get something out of the overhead bin, so I handed the sleeping Widline to her. They were both so happy--the pilot and the baby. So, I went to the front and started yakking with the Flight Attendant, then came back and started taking Widline out of the pilot's arms. Just as I leaned down for the baby, the pilot blurted, "My husband was just diagnosed with an inoperable brain tumor--holding her has been a religious experience for me." That stopped me right in my tracks and I placed the barely picked up baby back in her arms and said "You let me know when you are ready to give her back." And I sat down in my seat across from her, one row back.

I watched as the woman kept dabbing at her eyes, wiping away her tears, while holding the little Widline. I can't profess to know how she was feeling or what she was thinking, but I know that this little baby was a catalyst for good--some how, some way--for the lady. It was touching. Just before landing, I took the baby back, and as we deplaned, the pilot hugged my neck. I told her I would pray that she and her family found the strength they needed for the journey ahead, and she just shook her head up and down, tears once again forming....

These children gave so much--just by being. I doubt they will ever be aware of the lives they have affected. Love comes in tiny doses, and packs a big wallop!

Haiti, London and a mean, mean kitten!

February 26, 2008 1 Comments A+ a-

Busy couple of weeks coming up for me! Tomorrow, I am leaving for a quick run down to Port Au Prince, Haiti (PAP). When I get to Miami (MIA), I'll meet up with two other Flight Attendants, and we go together to PAP. There, as Airline Ambassadors, we'll be picking up three babies that need to come to the US for medical treatment. One is 6 weeks old, one is 9 months old, and the oldest is 13 months old. That will be a handful! We'll take them up to North Carolina and give them to the families that will be caring for them, spend the night, then come home the next day.

The following week, my daughter--Casey, sister--Donna, and I are heading to London for a long weekend. It is my last trip I'll be taking for a long time (pout)--since I start training in a couple of weeks. Plus, Donna has never been, and is taking her kids there in June and she'll be on her own in London--we want to make sure she can maximize her time with the kids there. (Okay, you got me....whatever--I'll use ANY excuse to go to one of my favorite places!!)

So, we'll do the hop- on, hop-off bus tour, take the Tube, hopefully see Wicked, eat at Strada (I know it's a chain--I just really, really like it!) and do some shopping. I can't wait!

In kitten news....
This morning, Emmie beat up a sock! She punched, scratched, drug (dragged) it around until it cried for mercy! She was fierce, and the poor sock never stood a chance! I think Emmie is a big ol' sock bully!

And, I wanted to give a "shout-out" to my Austrian reader, Claudia--she's a Flight Attendant on the same kind of regional jets that I (currently) fly. :)

They aren't always going to Disney World...

February 24, 2008 3 Comments A+ a-

I think all flight attendants have this story, or know someone that does. I was flying #1 on our Canadair Regional Jet (CRJ) a couple of years ago, and was closing overhead bins, while the #2 Flight Attendant was doing passenger count/weight and balance. About halfway back, there was a woman sitting against the window, clutching a canvas tote bag in her lap---it was pretty big, or full, for a tote bag--and, it needed to be stowed for taxi, take-off and landing. I asked her if she'd like me to put it in the overhead bin. She clutched her arms around it tighter, and said "no" in a trembling voice. I continued closing the overhead bins, since we had a lot of time before closing the door and I went back up front.

The #2 and I hung out in the galley and I mentioned the lady to her--and she, a rough and tough "biker chick" kinda gal, said "I'll fix her..." and started on a mission towards the lady. I pulled her back and said "No, let me..."

A few minutes later, it is almost time to get the door closed, I walked back and the lady was still clutching her canvas bag. I said, "We're about to close the door, would you like me to tuck that into the overhead bin for you?" Once again, trembling, she said "No." I lowered myself in the aisle and very quietly told her that we had to stow it for taxi, take-off, and landing--and, if she liked, she could put the bag underneath the seat in front of her. She just replied, with tears now streaming down her face, that it was her husband.

It took me a half-second to understand that inside the tote was her husband's ashes, in a box like this:

Having been "sort of" in her position--my Mom's cremains were in a box for many years, before we placed her ashes in the ocean--I understood that it was significant having this precious cargo NOT be on the floor or locked up next to a stranger's suitcase.

I asked her if I could keep her husband safe, next to me in my little cabinet, for take-off and landing--and told her I would bring him back to her as soon as I could get out of my jumpseat. She relented, and allowed me to take her most treasured package to "sit" next to me.


I did bring her husband back to her when I got out of my jumpseat--and we did the same for landing.

It was a reminder to me that not everyone who is flying is on business or vacation.

Recently, I had an older couple on my flight who were flying to Chicago (ORD) to bring back and bury their 20 year old grand daughter--who was killed in a car crash. The young woman was a single Mom and left behind a 4 month old baby. The couple was just heart-broken--their grand daughter had lived with them until a month or so before and had just recently moved from Omaha, Nebraska (OMA) to start her and her baby's lives fresh in "the big city."

So, when people are snippy, short, rude, unkind, or a little mean, I try to remember that I have no clue why they are on this plane, or what their life's circumstance is....I have to grin and bear it. Somedays, it's really hard...until I remember that I just don't know.....

Live, from the Spice Girls concert...

February 23, 2008 0 Comments A+ a-

My daughter, Casey and her friend, Abbi, at the Spice Girls concert, Thursday night.

New Addition to the Family...

February 23, 2008 3 Comments A+ a-



Norm just got his new SMART car today. The inside is pretty roomy for a two seater car...but the outside is TINY!!!

Kinda cute, huh?

Makin' a list, checkin' it a million times...

February 22, 2008 6 Comments A+ a-

I am going to go to training for 7 weeks...living with two other people in a dorm room setting (fun, fun, fun! not!) I've been making a list of creature comforts I need to have with me. Since I am driving so I can have a car there, I feel like I can bring anything I want to have with me, as long as I have the space in the room. I've already started "staging" this stuff in our guest room.

My "college-dorm needs" advisors, daughter, Casey and her friend, Abbi, helped me work on my list of things last night. Can you think of anything else I need to bring??

Bedding
Memory Foam mattress (spoiled, I know...)
sheets (my comfy flannel ones--it IS a twin bed, afterall...)
pillows (my own, thank you!)

Bath
shower caddy (since I am sharing with others, I will have to drag my stuff back and forth)
robe

Laundry
laundry bag
detergent/softener

Gadgets
laptop and cords
cell phone and charger
camera and charger
iPod and speakers
portable TV (it's a tiny one--with a two inch screen)
earplugs for phone/laptop/TV
fan (once again--it's a little one)
blow dryer (not provided)
lamp (gooseneck desk lamp)
curling brush/flat iron
reading lamp (one of the itty bitty book lights)

Toiletries
mirror (portable one--so I don't have to fight for mirror time with two other people)
motrin
shampoo/conditioner/hair products
make-up
Q-tips
Curel lotion
Dove soap
Amazing Grace (LOVE this stuff)
and all my other girlie stuff

Clothes
uniform shoes
stockings
plus the usual stuff

Other Stuff
lap desk (you know, one of these things)








tote bag/briefcase
baby wipes & Clorox wipes (can't live without 'em...)











ziplocs (who knows why???)
coffee mug (the one with Brendyn's picture on it)














case of water
coffee creamer (Carnation fat-free hazelnut)
extension cord
notebooks/tape/post its/stapler
photo book (it's a little thing I carry on my trips)

checkbook
two additional passport photos (for my Chinese visa!)
passport

What other essential can I not live without???

Just make yourself comfortable....

February 20, 2008 1 Comments A+ a-


Emmie found a nice cozy, comfy place to relax in...the kitchen sink! Look--she matches the countertop!! Kitty camouflage!




Yaaaaa-ay ME! Mostly!

February 20, 2008 2 Comments A+ a-

Well, I am very excited! Mostly, anyway!

I was offered training for a mainline carrier yesterday. I start next month.

Mixed emotions about this: I give up serious seniority (holidays/weekends off, ability to take days off pretty much when I wanted) and go back on Reserve. For FIVE years! (Shoot me now!) I will be able to see my family in 2016, I think!

And, I love the base where I am now--I know a lot of people, have an awesome Inflight Manager. (For you non-airline types, the words "awesome" and "Inflight Manager" generally do NOT combine!) I've been able to work on special projects, effect some change for the better for a flight attendants with my work on the Hotel Committee; work with some really fun & interesting people; and see many parts of the country that most people don't get to take the time to see.



The mainline carrier (American Airlines--BIG planes) that owns my airline (American Eagle-little planes) announced plans to "divest" our little airline. That puts my retirement flight benefits into a precarious situation--generally, you work for an airline for at least 10 years and turn 55, you can retire with lifetime flight benefits. I have enjoyed immensely the international flight benefits at AA, but will more than likely lose them if we are sold/divested/whatevered.


So, I am moving on. And the thought occurs to me that with all the airline mergers that are in the works, I could be furloughed and completely out of a job in 6 months. (sigh....)

The great news is I won't have to "commute" back and forth to Chicago, will fly internationally, and won't have to listen to you people getting on my plane and making comments about how small it is! ("Honey, the 747 to Evansville leaves in an hour....")

So, I am excited, nervous, happy and sad. I was composing my resignation letter this morning and started bawlin' like a baby! I DO think Flight Attendant friendships transcend geography, and pick up right where we left off when we do get back together--so I am happy for that.

Nervous about training--one screw up and "buh-bye!" They send you packing.

Excited about flying different airplanes--ALWAYS flying with a couple other Flight Attendants, never alone--and most excited about international opportunities.

Yaaaaa-ay ME!

Mostly!

Grand Tour of Arkansas -Coming Right Up!

February 17, 2008 0 Comments A+ a-

My next trip starts Wednesday. It is a grand tour of the great state of Arkansas, complete with two lovely overnights in Northwest Arkansas (XNA) and the lovely capital city, Little Rock.

I actually trip-traded for this. While it's no London or Rome (dammit!) XNA is a pretty decent overnight. I like the Flight Attendant I am flying with, Sharon. She does a good job and definitely isn't embarrassing to work with. She does have her serving apron COVERED in pins--pins that she has collected through the years. It must take her an hour to take them off when she washes it! (I think I'll ask her about that--and get back to you with it!) I'm telling you, she has more than a hundred pins! It looks sorta like those people that hoard, if you ask me....

Anyway, she is a nice lady, and I like talking to her, so, we'll have a nice trip. Also, I am flying #1, which I like better.

Here is my trip:

Wednesday, commute in from Washington (DCA) to Chicago (ORD), then fly this schedule:

ORD BNA (Nashville)
BNA ORD
ORD XNA (NWArkansas)
9.55 hours layover

XNA ORD
ORD XNA
15.40 hours layover

XNA ORD
ORD LIT (Little Rock)
LIT ORD
ORD LIT
14.15 hours layover

LIT ORD
Then, commute home--back in my house by noon!

Delaney SNORES!

February 17, 2008 0 Comments A+ a-

Such big noises from a little sleeping girl!

It'll do...

February 16, 2008 4 Comments A+ a-


Had we been able to go to San Antonio this morning, Norm and I would have joined my Dad and his girlfriend, and his friends Joe and Jeanie , for dinner at Sorrento's. Jeanie and I would have ordered the Eggplant Parmigiana--we always do--and would have been in heaven! It is the best I have ever tasted! Since we couldn't go, Norm and I had Italian here in Old Town Alexandria. I had the Eggplant Parmigiana. While it was good--it was no Sorrento's!

No San Antonio this weekend...

February 15, 2008 0 Comments A+ a-

Got an e-mail from Dad tonight:

"Check the weather! We're being inundated with warnings about severe thunderstorms, high winds, rain and hail in the morning. There's a wild one coming in from Mexico and New Mexico. Don't have much faith in local forecasters but they're all in unison on this one. If they continue, I'm going to put my little car in Edie's garage 'cuz mine has too much junk. I'll monitor it but most of all, I don't want you guys diverted and get stuck in DFW."

So, Norm and I decided not to go to San Antonio.

I'm bummed!

February 14, 2008 0 Comments A+ a-

I am off for a few days--Norm and I going to try and non-rev to San Antonio Saturday morning at "oh-dark-thirty" (0600) to see my Dad for a couple of days. The plan is to come back early Monday morning--to try and work around/beat the President's Day holiday flyers. I just want you to know how much I love getting out of bed at 3:00 in the morning....

Anyway, I want to go the the Thai Cafe for lunch on Saturday...and maybe go down to the Riverwalk with Norm.

Crossin' my fingers that the flights don't fill up!

Sailing kitties

February 12, 2008 0 Comments A+ a-



Buffy and Willow, sailboat kitties, aboard the s/v And So It Goes, in Saint Martin.

Slam-clicking

February 12, 2008 0 Comments A+ a-

Got home from my trip yesterday around 6 pm. I was so tired that I fell asleep in the chair last night watching reruns of Judge Judy!

Had a fun First Officer this trip--Katie. She's full of energy and always in a happy mood--I would very much like to fly with her again. My Captain--not so much. He's one of those guys that "slam clicks"-- which means he just goes into his hotel room, slams the door and clicks the lock--and doesn't reappear until it is time to go to the airport the next day. He is also one of those strange old birds that has to do everything his way--so, I am glad he was a slam-clicker! He has the worst breath humanly possible, too! Poor Katie! She told me she almost got sick on her last trip with him because the smell in the cockpit was so bad. Since the cockpit door is closed in flight, the flight deck crew slides the passengers' connecting gate information to me through a vent in the door. Knowing it was coming, I stood there for a moment--and could smell his breath on the other side of the door! Yep, it was that bad! Someone buy that man some dental floss!!

The very best part of the trip was that I was able to have dinner with my Dad! He was in Memphis (MEM) visiting family, and stuck around to meet me for dinner. Of course, we were late getting there, since we had to de-ice in Chicago and that took forever--and I had an early wake-up call the next morning (3:45 in the morning qualifies as early!) so we had to keep it short. We had a lovely dinner at the Italian Steakhouse, Capriccio in the Peabody Hotel. (The Peabody is famous for its' ducks, that walk the lobby every day.) The food was good, the service was good, but my company was outstanding! We had a lovely, lovely dinner--and it was coincidental that it was my Mom's birthday--she would have been--wait, I'll keep that to myself!! ;) Anyway, there we were, telling Mom stories, both of us tearing up several times during dinner--I wish we could have stayed there longer! We really had a lovely time together!

My big plans for Cincinnati (CVG) evolved into take-out from the hotel's restaurant. My First Officer, Katie, invited me to join her and her parents for dinner, but I had fallen asleep, and bowed out. Which officially made ME a "slam-clicker!"

I took this picture from the hotel's restaurant--we actually stay in Covington, KY, which is across the river from CVG.

I am going to vote--today is the primary election here in Virginia.

February 08, 2008 4 Comments A+ a-

I start a four day trip this afternoon--so, I am running around trying to get last minute stuff done that I couldn't do on my days off because I was stuck in Chicago.

I had a meeting in Chicago on Tuesday morning--so I flew in the night before. Then the snow started--and flights out of ORD were cancelled. So, I didn't get home until almost 3pm yesterday. Surprisingly, the flight coming home wasn't full--apparently, the pre-cancellation of flights kept people from being stuck in ORD. So, maybe they DO know what they're doing--sometimes!

Tonight, I will be in Evansville, Indiana (EVV) then tomorrow, Memphis (MEM)and finally Cincinnati (CVG)--hotbeds of excitement, I know!

Actually, most of the crews like the EVV hotel--free breakfast. Yep, the gold standard of hotels for us: free internet and free breakfast! (It is pitiful, I know!) Saturday night, my Dad will also be in MEM--my Mom was from there, I was born there, and I have a ton o' family there--so, I am hoping to see him, and possibly an Auntie or two for dinner. In CVG, we arrive at 11:20 a.m. and don't leave until 6:00 a.m. the next day. There is an area near our hotel called Germantown, which is kinda cool. Lots of restaurants and shops. I have never seen it in the daytime--seems like a lot of college kids at night. There is an exhibit at the Cincinnati museum that I have been wanting to see for a couple of years called Bodies-the Exhibition--hopefully it isn't too far from the hotel and maybe one of my crew will want to see it too. (Doubt it, though--it's not the kind of thing many people I work with would a.) want to see or b.) actually pull out cash to pay for something.)


Mangled mess o' cat!

February 03, 2008 1 Comments A+ a-


Emmie taking a nap next to Norm during the Super Bowl.
Really, that is a cat next to him!!

Cancellations, delays and a sweet man!

February 02, 2008 1 Comments A+ a-

Yesterday, we were supposed to take out the "kick-off" flight from Little Rock, Arkansas (LIT) at 0615. I knew the Flight Attendant that was supposed to bring our airplane into LIT the night before, so I texted him and asked him to let me know if his flight cancels. (If they don't bring the airplane to us, we don't have one to take out the next day.) There were tons of cancellations the day before in Chicago (ORD)--about 600 flights canceled that day! Sure enough, he texted me to let me know that his flight canceled.

What is supposed to happen then, is that Crew Scheduling is supposed to call our Captain and inform him of our cancellation and reschedule. Of course, they didn't call him. If I had not had my laptop with me, or my friend's text message, we would have gone to the airport at 0515 and had to sit around and wait until our new scheduled flight, which was a few hours later. Sitting around the airport is very fatiguing, as you may very well know! Fortunately, we were able to go back to sleep for a bit, because I called our Captain and let him know.

Actually, I flew less than half the hours I was scheduled to fly for this trip because of cancellations. If you were caught up in that mess in ORD, you have my sympathies!

Since we were delayed, our only flight was a deadhead (riding as passengers) back to the base (ORD) and we were finished with our trip for the week. Knowing what a nighmare that was going on in ORD, I decided to hang out in LIT, and take a non-stop flight to Washington Dulles (IAD) a few hours later on another carrier. It worked out beautifully--I was even able to meet up with Norm, and we walked home from the Metro together. It was very sweet-he even offered to carry my books for....uh, I mean, drag my suitcase for me!